
"Look! It's Santa Claus Momma!" yells a young girl starring at Cap'n. Without missing a beat, he responds smirking "that's right, so you better be good." Although Cap'n is not the real Santa, he does sport the same white beard and has an interesting story to match...
Encountering large numbers of people on a regular basis, it is real easy overlook the individual and say the same robotic lines that you have been programmed to say without giving giving them a second look. However, through my encounters with individuals like Cap'n Gene Schwantes, I am reminded that everybody has a story. Some are long. Some are colorful. Some are exciting. Regardless of who you are or where you come from, you have a story.
Simply called Cap'n at the park, he is known for his work ethic by posting 200+ hours a month volunteering (over 40 hours a week). A former home designer/ insurance saleman/ Yacht Captain - he, like everybody else, became who he is through life experiences. Through the good, the bad, and the ugly, Gene Schwantes became Cap'n.
In a recent sit down, Cap'n shared this story...
I was the Cap'n of a Yacht that provided chartering services for special events like Halloween, Thanksgiving, Christmas, weddings and funerals. Each occasion produced many stories. However, one of the most memorable and sadly comical events was a funeral for the mother of a sailboat owner in our fleet.
The family chose to have the cremated remains cast into the sea to commemorate her life’s enjoyment of the water. A poignantly appropriate day to match the sadness of the occasion; cloudy,windy, gloomy, gave a solemn meaning to the event. Casting off with the family aboard, we headed to the open water to cast the remains to Neptune’s Door.
Arriving at an appropriate location for the ceremony, I attempted to position the boat such that the wind and the waves could best be tolerated. An almost impossible task. Each Family member was able to cast a portion of the ashes, that were carefully and tearfully held by the Widowed father. The wind chose to do its own thing by dispersing the ashes everywhere.
As we returned to the dock and almost all the Family had left the area. The Grieving Father said to his son, “Do You think we could get a hose and wash Mama off the Deck?”
We did !
Everybody has a story that is made up of great stories like this one. If you get a second, take the time to listen to somebody's elses especially if they resemble Santa Claus.